Front Air Bag Sensor Control problems of the 2004 BMW 645

Passenger restraint system failure fault light has started showing on my BMW. There has been a recall reported on the same component "statement on voluntary recall involving front passenger seat sensor mat on u. S. A. Model Bmws - August 13, 2008". It is NHTSA recall campaign number: 08v384000. I have the same problem so I called BMW and they stated that my car is not part of the recall. I do not understand how my car is having the exact same problem but is not part of the recall? this is a huge safety issue. I think BMW should be held responsible and should be required to correct this faulty mat sensor problem before someone is injured. I am afraid to carry passengers in my car for liability reasons.