Suspension Noise problems of the 2006 Dodge Stratus

Tamara recall my fuel tank has a evaporation leak and the mechanic said it's from the screws that hold the gas tank on has caused my check engine light to come on also the suspension is very bad and I had them replaced when I first naught the car it should not be as bad as it is, my steering is very bad I have replace the rack in opinion, power steering pump,and had an alignment so is what's wrong with it , when driving my car it sounds like my whole trunk is going to fall off if I hit a bad enough road bump and I take care of my car my dad was a mechanic so I know not to neglect my vehicle and I know that everything that is going wrong with my vehicle that all the recalls were not done on mine !my steering wheel shakes really bad it sometimes is hard for me to hang on too it , I have arthritis in my hands now, I was in the middle of the highway with my 7 year old daughter when my steering went out luckily I had a family member behind me and was able to safely get it off the road and nobody was hurt,check engine light will not go off so it's very hard to find a place to pass me once I explain my situation I payed out so much money just for inspection sticker getting failed I'm a very short person I'm 5'4 and when you hit a road bump going 5 miles an hour and you hit your head hard each and every time you hit a bump or pot hole in the road that really hurts to the point you have to pull over and let your head stop hurting bf you can continue on to work I have missed a lot of work bc of how bad your car is and I can't sell it or anything bc I need a way of going to pay my bills which I can barely pay now not including the doctor bills that have been added bc of the vehicle I drive I have a start of degeneration of my lower back.

I was hearing a clicking noise coming from both sides of my car in the front. I took the car to a mechanic and was informer that my lower and upper control arms were in need of replacement. The mechanic showed me the ball joints and lifted them up with a huge screwdriver. I was told by the mechanic that the tire could separate and cause a accident. I went to autozone and purchased the lower control arms and had them installed on the car. When I took the car to get the recommended alignment I was told that the upper control arms needed to be replaced as well. I had at the time about 169,000 miles on the vehicle. I have never received a recall letter from anyone about the problems with the suspension. Its very expensive to repair and very unsafe. I practically ruined a new set of tires because of this suspension problem and I am presently experiencing wear due to the upper control arm needing replacement.