Paint problems of the 2006 Honda Accord

Hi, my Accord's paint has been peeling since approx. 1 year after I got the vehicle. It first started with the windows, then the trunk, now it is on the top and sides and more around windows. Peeled parts around windows immediately, and on the trunk it started as small circles, which have now spread to 50% of the car- it is going to rust and there is bare body and not any paint left in these areas. I have made many attempts, all which they told me I would have to pay for the paint- including a $250 quote from the dealer for the trunk only. Recently, I took my car there for service and they took a gash out of my paint in the back bumper so I have to get the bumper painted too now. Since this is a nationwide defect it should be recalled and the cstmr should not be responsible! please help! ps- this is my 2nd Honda from the same dealer (dealer who also wont help), and im actua;;y ready to buy a third but afraid.