Transmission Not Engage problems of the 2004 Honda Pilot

Around 35-45 mph, loud noise is produced inside my 2004 Honda Pilot transmission. The vehicle has 117,000 miles. It sounds as if gears are not engaging, and are rather chipping off. I took the car to Honda before my warranty expired and they stated they could not reproduce the noise. I continued to drive the vehicle, and the noise would intermittently happen. Now the noise happens all the time around 35-45 mph as I let off of the accelerator a bit. I took it to my local mechanic(who I trust) and told him to check it out. He stated that a recall was out for the 2004 Honda Pilot automatic transmissions. I took the car the next day to the Honda dealership, and they stated that my vehicle had already received the recall, and therefore the automatic transmission was replaced with a new one (transmission number 2 I will call it). I asked Honda to investigate the cause of the transmission noise to see if it was something else. Honda tested the car, and it now again needs another automatic transmission. If I replace the transmission as they recommend, this will be the 3rd transmission in the car and I do not even have but 117,000 miles on the vehicle! the Honda representative stated that the noise will continue and eventually lock up. . . Which could cause a serious accident if on the highway when it occurs. This is a serious safety concern, and I am not pleased with Honda's customer service in this instance. Upon researching, I have seen numerous posts on the internet, and official complaints stating they too are having the same issues even after the recall. Honda should have a 2nd recall as the safety of their customers is in jeopardy. This is ridiculous, and Honda should step up to pay for the repair as they clearly have a problem with their transmissions even after the recall.