Other Fuel System Pump problems of the 2005 Honda Accord

On 12/23/2016 had trouble with car hesitating, stalling then not starting, was in my driveway. Car towed to Honda dealer in burlington, MA. They replaced starter motor for $574. 60 and on 12/29/2016 after I picked up the car, was driving in the fast lane on the highway and could not accelerate. Was able to get out of traffic and pull over. Eventually made it to a parking lot where car bucked, stalled and would not start. Towed back to Honda in burlington. They "cleaned out debris in maf sensor" and said "one of the cables on the throttle body is broken and may cause the same problem" suggested $819. 00 repair. Car ran ok until 9/19/2017 when again could not accelerate on highway. Was travelling in the fast lane but managed to cross four lanes of traffic with no power. This was extremely dangerous and could have caused a serious highway crash for the second time. Did some research and found an April, 2007 recall related to the fuel pump relay in certain 2005 Honda Accords. I searched the NHTSA for my VIN and found there are 0 recalls associated with my car. However, my car did, in fact, have a defective mitsuba relay. This is a very dangerous situation and I am extremely lucky. Something is wrong that my VIN was not included in the recall.