general problems of the 1999 Honda Passport

My Passport has issues with rear axels and suspension/bolts. Also one day when it had been raining I applied my breaks to stop for a red traffic light and the car went right through the light. The other times I have had to pump the breaks to get car to stop and it made an awful noise. My biggest fear is that I will be driving the car and the rear suspension/support is going to fall apart. A gentleman whose wife was drivind a Passport said that her cars front wheel fell off. She did not have an accident as she was backing out of the driveway. None of the recalls seem to have been done to this car and I do not know where to turn. I am 71 years old and I drive my great grandchildren around occasionally. I also provide transportation for elderly persons in the community. I just want to know where to go to get this fixed or bought back. I went to a Honda service garage in dayton,ohio and he said the recall was outdated? a safety issue that big that has been on government recall and never been fixed can not have an outdated recall? my daughter has pictures of the suspension and rust, I do not know how to send them!.

This is the 2nd time in less than 6 months that the flywheel has separated, with center part staying attached to motor. I was fortunate enough to be able to get off the road before being hit by another vehicle. The center part of the flywheel is staying attached to the engine; while the outer part is separating. All teeth on the flywheel are still intact. Therefore I have two parts, one circling the other. Engine stops dead immediately when they separate. This is a $300 or more part. It was just replaced less than 3 months ago and now it has done it again. There is no listed recall. This is a major safety concern, especially since the everything stops when this separation occurs. Had to push vehicle off road both times. Feel I'm lucky to be alive. Who do I need to contact regarding this?.